A sex therapist states that a man can have sex with various men and still be straight.
Dr. Joe Kort is a sex and relationship therapist, claims that those men who have sex with other men don’t mean that they aren’t straight.
When a straight man has sex, it only refers to the act.
Dr. Joe Kort says that straight men can have sex with gay, but it doesn’t make them less straight.
The doctor works with straight people, gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender personas and couples, and he shared his theory.
His theory is presented through social media platform called TikTok.
“In general, men have more transactional sex with one another. In general, women don’t. So, when men have objectified sex where it’s just about the act, it’s just about getting off, people man-shame them.”
The therapist states that male sexuality is easy to stigmatize.
‘’There is so much man-shaming that goes on male sexuality and so much negative talk and criticism that men don’t share.’’
@drjoekortWhen #straight #men sleep with men it’s a #gay thing not a guy thing. #lgbtq #sexuality #sexualfluidity♬ Sugarcrash! – ElyOtto
Your sexual behavior doesn’t determine sexual orientation, and he says this as gay at the age of 14.
But, this theory faced many critics because they disagreed with it.
Following these comments, Dr. Kort answered:
‘’A straight man can be erotically and sexually drawn to a sexual act. The act doesn’t change somebody’s orientation. The act might be heterosexual, the act might be homosexual, but the identity doesn’t necessarily mean that that’s who they are.’’
@drjoekort#greenscreen If a #straightman has sex with another #man is straight cancelled? #yourmomshouse #tomsegura #sexualfluidity #lgbttiktok #gaytiktok
According to Dr. Kort, narcissism is one reason that a straight man could have sex with a gay man.
Men seek ‘’adoration,’’ and they want to be worshiped in the bedroom.
Because this is something the women don’t do in bed, a straight man thinks he could find it in a gay partner.
‘’The straight man who is having sex with another man is into it because the guy is into him. It’s all about him.’’
Another reason for this act could be voyeurism. It is a fetish when a particular person gets aroused by observing others during sex.
In defense of his theory, Dr. Kort says that women aren’t available as men regarding allowing someone to watch them.
He summarizes his opinion in the video below:
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